Fakers

This topic is something that I find all too common.

What is a faker?  This is the same thing as a poser and a liar!  A faker is someone who pretends to be someone that they are not.

Okay, let me elaborate on this.  I absolutely cannot stand when people gossip and talk about other people, but it is even worse when I find people doing this about those they “claim” as friends!   I mean seriously, how in the hell do they think that falls under the term “friendship”?

I am the type of person that will do anything for my family … and my true friends.  I keep my business private and guard my friends’ business just as tight.  If there is someone that I do not like or just do not get along with, then I prefer not to associate with that person.  I find no reason to talk to the person – no, not even small talk or a cordial “hello” or “good-bye” is necessary as far as I am concerned!  I do not believe in allowing their negative energy to invade my sacred “bubble”!  

I do not believe in smiling in someone’s face and talking about them behind their backs — I am perfectly capable of saying it directly to your face!  I hate when see people that I know for a fact are saying bad things about me, and they smile and wave at me like they are my friend!  I do not speak to these people because I have nothing to say to them … nothing polite anyway!  Anything I might say will be very damaging because I speak my mind and call it like it is!  I do not sugar-coat anything but if I am controlling my ADHD at the time, I can bite my tongue.  However, if I do not have control of it then I will blurt out exactly what I am thinking when I am thinking it … this is usually pretty bad because it is brutally honest! 

Why do people feel the need to put others down in order to suppress their own insecurities???!!!???

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Remember – there is a reason that people like this fall off of your list of true and real friends!!!